How We're Different

We make one promise we'll never break: Buttr will never interrupt conversations between users with ads to push upgrades or subscriptions. Ever. That's the hill we'll die on.

Instead, we partner with vendors and sponsors to create meaningful perks and services that make gay men healthier, happier, and more connected. When we reach scale, we'll introduce a subscription model that keeps our lights on and our team paid—but never at the cost of your conversations.

What We've Created

Buttr is built around genuine connection. Our chat system rewards real engagement: exchange a few messages, and photo and video sharing unlocks naturally. If someone isn't invested, you can hide them and move forward.

This isn't about hoops or games. It's about ensuring that when someone gains access to you, they've demonstrated real interest. Every feature exists to facilitate actual conversations that lead to real-world connections.

We build what gay men actually ask for—not what worked for straight audiences, and never in a vacuum.

Join Us

As Buttr grows, we're listening. Tell us what you need, and we'll build it.

Buttr Social is built by gay men, for gay men. Your needs, wants, and wellbeing are our only priority.

What we know for certain: gay men deserve apps that respect them, communities that listen to them, and technology that serves and delights them.

It's better on Buttr because you're building it with us.